The following is a list of things that I feel I should be doing every day, times are approximate and they’re in no particular order:
Sleep 8 hours
Fix and eat 3 meals 2 hours
Supervise homework time 40 minutes
Bedtime snack/story time 30 minutes
Reading with Patch 20 minutes
Talking with Kiki 30 minutes
Talking with Link 30 minutes
Talking with Gleek 30 minutes
Talking with Patch 30 minutes
Helping Link practice physical skills 10 minutes
Listening to Link read aloud 20 minutes
Household chores 1-2 hours
Gardening/outside time 1 hour
Exercise 30 minutes
Answer email 1 hour
Process and ship new store orders 40 minutes
Other Schlock work 2 hours
Blog 30 minutes
Spend time with Howard 1 hour
If you total all of that up, it comes to 22 hours and 40 minutes. This leaves me an hour and 20 minutes per day to manage all those little incidental events like driving kids to and from lessons, sibling conflict, Parent teacher conferences, grocery shopping, keeping in touch with friends, relaxing. My expectations of myself are impossible. I know they are. About the best I can do is hit most of the important things on most days. And yet I some days I still feel like a failure because I didn’t do all of it that day.
Wow, you had an hour and 20 minutes left for incidentals? Be happy you didn’t have a negative balance.
Yeah! I thought it would all add up to 27 hours! lol!
I think that 1.5 hours for yourself might not count if you didn’t add in all the driving back and forth stuff, sibling conflict (that takes an hour to fix at my house!), grocery shopping (UNLESS you can do it by yourself OR with Howard, then that counts as YOU time or Date time!).
Best not to think about it… just do what needs to be done. right?
I was expecting to have a negative balance and was surprised when I didn’t. Of course now that I look at the list, I realize I’ve left some things off of it. Little things like “Shower and get dressed” or “lock up for the night”